11. If you fancy a threesome, do it with someone you’re not in love with. It goes a lot smoother in your head than in your bed and not much fun if you’re a frothing mess of jealousy and insecure paranoia throughout.
12. You’ll have a much better s3x life if you match up with someone who has the same libido. Everyone’s s3x drive spikes at the start but about eight months in, you’ll get a good idea of how much s3x you both naturally crave. Mismatched s3x drives are the main reason couples fight about s3x. If you can possibly manage it, stick with your tribe.
13. No one is born a brilliant lover. S3x skills can be taught and brushing up on the basics, just to check you’re on the right track, is something everyone should do. We can all improve.
14. It doesn’t mean you’re boring in bed if he wants to try something new. Let go of the concept that ‘you should be enough’.
It’s hard enough making love happily to the same person for the rest of your life. If you don’t have variety, you’ve lost the game before it’s even started.
15. Men are visual. They like looking at s3xy things. This is the main reason why men watch porn.
It’s usually that innocent.
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